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There's a... surprising that those haven't all gone south. It was so cold yesterday.
Gretl WaldI don't think they go.
Ben NachmanNo, these I think stay here.
Gretl WaldI don't think so. But usually, at least they're not that loud. I don't know. They probably complain because it's so cold.
How many children do you have?
Ben NachmanThree.
Gretl WaldThree.
Ben NachmanAll daughters, all married.
Gretl WaldOh, really?
Ben NachmanAll living in Scottsdale, Arizona.
Gretl WaldThe same place, please.
Ben NachmanJanuary 19, 1996, interviewing the survivor Gretel Wald, W-A-L-D. My name is Ben Nachman, N-A-C-H-M-A-N, Lincoln, Nebraska, Language English. Can you give us your name, please?
Gretl WaldGretel Wald.
Ben NachmanAnd how do you spell your last name?
Gretl WaldW-A-L-D.
Ben NachmanAnd can you give me your maiden name?
Gretl WaldRothschild.
Ben NachmanAnd how do you spell that?
Gretl WaldR-O-T-H-S-C-H-I-L-D.
Ben NachmanAnd when were you born?
Gretl WaldWhen?
Ben NachmanYes.
Gretl WaldYeah, in September 17, 1913.
Ben NachmanAnd where were you born?
Gretl WaldI was born in Öhringen. It's in Württemberg, southern Germany.
Ben NachmanAnd how do you spell the name of the city you were born in?
Gretl WaldW-Ü, -Ü-E-T-T-E-M-B-E-R-G.
Ben NachmanCan you tell me your age, Mrs. Wald?
Gretl Wald82. That I don't like.
Ben NachmanCan you tell me about the city you were born in?
Gretl WaldI was born in Öhringen.
Ben NachmanAnd how large a city was that?
Gretl WaldOh, about 5,000 people.
Ben NachmanHow many Jewish people lived there at that time?
Gretl WaldWe had at least 75 families.
Ben NachmanWas it an active Jewish community?
Gretl WaldVery. My father was a president of it.
Ben NachmanOf the Jewish community?
Gretl WaldOf the Jewish community.
Ben NachmanDid you have just one synagogue in the town?
Gretl WaldYeah.
Ben NachmanAnd did your family attend the synagogue often?
Gretl WaldYes.
Ben NachmanDid you attend on the Sabbath?
Gretl WaldNo, I didn't. My parents did.
Ben NachmanAnd how about on holidays? Did you attend on holidays?
Gretl WaldYes, I did.
Ben NachmanDid you have any religious education?
Gretl WaldOh, yes.
Ben NachmanCan you describe that for me, please?
Gretl WaldYeah, we had school twice a week. If I remember correctly, it was Wednesday and Sunday. We had another lesson.
Ben NachmanThese were Hebrew lessons?
Gretl WaldHebrew yeah.
Ben NachmanWas this following your normal schooling?
Gretl WaldI can't quite understand how you mean that.
Ben NachmanDid you attend the Hebrew school after you had gone to your public school?
Gretl WaldYeah. Usually, after the public school was over, we had the Hebrew school.
Ben NachmanAnd you attended public school in Öhringen?
Gretl WaldIn Lincoln.
Ben NachmanYes, you did.
Gretl WaldYeah. Not Lincoln. In Öhringen.
Ben NachmanÖhringen.
Gretl WaldI'm sorry.
Ben NachmanAnd how far did you attend school? How long were you in school?
Gretl WaldRegular school, how long? I had high school.
Ben NachmanYou finished high school?
Gretl WaldFinished high school.
Ben NachmanDid you go to school beyond that?
Gretl WaldI went to a business school.
Ben NachmanAlso in the same city?
Gretl WaldYes.
Ben NachmanWhat did you study in the business school?
Gretl WaldOh, typing and keeping books and whatever you do in a business, you know.
Ben NachmanWhat kind of work did your father do?
Gretl WaldMy father, we... he was... we were trading wheat and buying flours and grains. And my dad sold it to bakers and some other people wanted it.
Ben NachmanDid he actually buy and keep this grain or was it?
Gretl WaldYes. We had a big place where we stored it.
Ben NachmanAnd how did you ship the grain?
Gretl WaldWe had one big wagon with two horses. It's a very heavy wagon.
Ben NachmanDid you deliver the grain long distances?
Gretl WaldYes, we did, yeah. But mostly it was in Württemberg, where I was born, you know.
Ben NachmanIn this town that you lived in, can you describe your home for me?
Gretl WaldIt was so long ago. We had our office downstairs. Then we had a first floor with a living room and a dining room and a bedroom. And then upstairs, the same thing. And then we had another floor. We had a girl working for us. She had a room upstairs. And then we had an attic. It was a big house.
Ben NachmanDid it have a lot of land with the house?
Gretl WaldNo, nothing. It was in the city, we didn't have it there. We had a big garden, but we had to go across the street. Then go down a little bit, you know, down the street.
Ben NachmanWhat kind of heating did you have in this house?
Gretl WaldOvens, plain ovens, that we heat with coal and wood.
Ben NachmanWere these located on each floor of the house?
Gretl WaldOn each floor, yeah.
Ben NachmanAnd did you have plumbing?
Gretl WaldYes, sure.
Ben NachmanAlso indoor plumbing?
Gretl WaldYes.
Ben NachmanAnd what kind of life did you have in this town?
Gretl WaldVery nice.
Ben NachmanYou lived well?
Gretl WaldYeah. Everybody knew us, you know. See, my dad was born in Öhringen. So it was a very nice living for a while.
Ben NachmanDid you have a lot of Jewish friends?
Gretl WaldYes.
Ben NachmanDid you also have friendships with the non-Jewish?
Gretl WaldOh, yes. It's the same thing.
Ben NachmanRelationships were good.
Gretl WaldVery good.
Ben NachmanGot along well with all your neighbors.
Gretl WaldOh, yes.
Ben NachmanHad your father's family been in this city for a lot of years?
Gretl WaldYes. My dad was born in that house.
Ben NachmanSo the house did belong to the family for quite some time?
Gretl WaldFor quite some time.
Ben NachmanHow many brothers and sisters did you have?
Gretl WaldI had one sister.
Ben NachmanJust one sister. She older or younger?
Gretl WaldShe's younger.
Ben NachmanShe's younger. Did she also attend the same schools?
Gretl WaldI don't think she went to a business school. She went to regular school, and I don't know what else to tell you.
Ben NachmanDuring the Jewish holidays, did you have normal holiday meals with the family?
Gretl WaldYes.
Ben NachmanDid you have an extended family that came to these occasions?
Gretl WaldYes.
Ben NachmanCan you tell me who they were?
Gretl WaldWell, they were brothers and sisters of my father and mother, you know.
Ben NachmanDid they live in the same town?
Gretl WaldNo.
Ben NachmanThey would travel to your home?
Gretl WaldYes. In fact, we always had company they called us Hotel Rothschild, because we always had people.
Ben NachmanDid you do any traveling outside of your town?
Gretl WaldOh, yes.
Ben NachmanWhere did you travel to?
Gretl WaldWell, I went to Frankfurt. I had relatives there, and I went to Nuremberg. I had relatives there, too.
Ben NachmanHow did you get around in your travel?
Gretl WaldWith a train.
Ben NachmanWith a train?
Gretl WaldMm-hmm.
Ben NachmanAnd the relationships with the family and with the neighbors was all very good at that time.
Gretl WaldVery good, yeah.
Ben NachmanNo problems? In growing up, then, did you take a job in the field you were trained in?
Gretl WaldNo, I worked for my dad. He had an office.
Ben NachmanAnd what was your job at the office?
Gretl WaldOh, well, typing. And I never was very good in keeping books. I tried not to have to do it. But my dad had somebody else working there. So, it was all right.
Ben NachmanWas your mother also from this area?
Gretl WaldShe was from, I think... I don't even know where it was. She comes from Niederstetten. That's where she's born.
Ben NachmanIs that far away from...
Gretl WaldNo, nothing was far.
Ben NachmanAnd how did your mother and father meet?
Gretl WaldI I, they probably were introduced, if I remember correctly.
Ben NachmanDid the synagogue in the town have a rabbi, a full-time rabbi?
Gretl WaldHe wasn't a real rabbi. He was a teacher, I would say, because he taught the children, too. And he did the service, and I think... I don't think we had a rabbi, ever.
Ben NachmanThis was a full-time job for him?
Gretl WaldYeah, yes.
Ben NachmanIn growing up, then, did you do any other traveling other than to just visit relatives as a family?
Gretl WaldYeah, I'm just thinking. No, mostly we went, when there was vacation, my sister and I. And my parents, once they... I had relatives in Offenburg, and this is just so close... You go to Switzerland from there. And my parents went, and they left us with the relatives in Offenburg. Yeah, that's about it.
Ben NachmanHow were economic conditions for you during this period?
Gretl WaldVery good.
Ben NachmanFamily made a nice living?
Gretl WaldYes, very nice.
Ben NachmanAnd was your mother strictly a housewife?
Gretl WaldWell, we had help all the time, but she did some things, yeah. But we had a maid, we had her for 25 years. And sometimes she didn't want my mother to come in the kitchen. She wanted to do alone everything, you know.
Ben NachmanSo... What did your mother do to occupy herself?
Gretl WaldWell, she did a lot of sewing and handiwork, and I really don't know, but to me, she was never sitting, really, you know. She did a lot of sewing, knitting, things like that.
Ben NachmanHow would you describe your growing up years, your young years in Germany?
Gretl WaldIt was very nice until my mother died. I was only 17 when she died. My sister was 11, so I actually brought up my sister, because my dad was, I think you would say today nervous breakdown. I wouldn't- I didn't let him go out of the house by himself. I always went after him, because I was worried he might do some things.
Ben NachmanWas this brought on by the death of your mother?
Gretl WaldYeah, see, my mother was only 43, and my dad at that time was 59, so it was 16 years apart.
Ben NachmanWhat did she die from?
Gretl WaldShe had her leg amputated, she had a blood clot.
Ben NachmanAnd died during surgery?
Gretl WaldNo, she was about a week, alive.
Ben NachmanDid you help with the household at that time?
Gretl WaldA little bit, we helped. But we had a woman who came in for washing and stuff like that. So I had to help when we did the cleaning and everything, so I learned, you know. My mother always wanted me to help, you know.
Ben NachmanDo you remember what year this was?
Gretl WaldWhat?
Ben NachmanAt the time of your mother's death?
Gretl WaldNo, she was, she died. But I think I have it written down, don't I? It's in that book, yeah.
Ben NachmanWhen did you notice things starting to change in Germany?
Gretl WaldWell, when Hitler came into Germany, so to speak, you know.
Ben NachmanDid you notice a change in the people in your town?
Gretl WaldNot too bad. When he really came into office, then I felt it.
Ben NachmanBy your neighbors?
Gretl WaldBy everybody, we had some real good neighbors still. When Hitler came, they brought us food over at night, you know. But some of them wouldn't even say hello anymore. Children spit at you when you went across the street. We had to close our, we had, not the windows, what you have in front of the windows outside, but I can't think of it, what you call it.
Ben NachmanShutters?
Gretl WaldSomething like it, yeah, yeah.
Ben NachmanDid this affect your father's business at this time?
Gretl WaldNot in the beginning, really, but afterwards he gave it up, you know.
Ben NachmanDid he close the business?
Gretl WaldYeah.
Ben NachmanWas not able to sell it?
Gretl WaldNo. He didn't try to sell it. It was with the house. It was in the house, you know, downstairs.
Ben NachmanAs the war progressed, or as Hitler was in power, can you describe what happened to your family then? Did you start to leave as part of the country?
Gretl WaldWell, my dad was picked up with about ten other men and was put into jail.
Ben NachmanDo you remember when this was?
Gretl WaldNo, I can't remember. I don't remember.
Ben NachmanWas this before Kristallnacht?
Gretl WaldIt was before Kristallnacht, yeah.
Ben NachmanAnd why did they pick him up?
Gretl WaldBecause they picked up ten or twelve Jewish men, and my dad was a president of the congregation, so naturally they picked him up, you know.
Ben NachmanWhere did they take him?
Gretl WaldJail.
Ben NachmanAnd how long was he in jail?
Gretl WaldHe was in jail a few hours, because later on in the evening my sister and I visited him and brought him a few things, for example, his prayerbook and pajama. And a, the jail warden, when he saw it he wanted to know our name. And he says, well, your father can go home with you. And he was the only one of all those men who was sent home. The others, I never knew, I never knew where they sent them. None of them came back.
Ben NachmanBut your father was permitted to come home.
Gretl WaldYeah, and I still, I also see why he came home, why they let him go, see. It was like a mirracle, because all the others were gone.
Ben NachmanWhen he came home, how were conditions?
Gretl WaldIn the meantime, my uncle left, because my dad and my uncle had the business together, and he was in the house, and he took a, oh, where you ride with, I can't think of the name now, a bicycle, excuse me, a bicycle, and went to a sister, sister-in-law. He went a few stations where there is a train, and then he left the bicycle and went to the sister-in-law, and there were two other men hiding. She's a widow. She was, yeah, she was the sister of his wife.
Ben NachmanAnd she was hiding him?
Gretl WaldYeah, and two other men.
Ben NachmanWhere was this that this took place?
Gretl WaldStuttgart.
Ben NachmanWere they able to survive the war?
Gretl WaldYeah, in the meantime, we got him, you know, I was still there. It was about in '39 when I left, and my uncle came about, and his wife came about a year later. So it must be 1940, because I left in '39.
Ben NachmanWell, did your father, was he able to leave with you when you left Germany?
Gretl WaldMy father went after my uncle, because the man who gave us papers and everything, he wanted a letter that my dad takes care of himself, that he wouldn't, that the country's government doesn't have to take care of him. And that man didn't want to give it to me because he was worried, you know, that my dad might take advantage of him. So I went there. I lived in New York then, and I flew there to meet some men, talk to him.
Ben NachmanWhen were you first trying to get out of Germany?
Gretl WaldWhen? Oh, I tried maybe in 1946 or so. I kept on writing until he was, in fact, he sent me a letter, he said, so he could get rid of me with my writing. He sent me his affidavit and everything. See, I didn't need that special letter, because my dad was pretty old, and they were worried, you know.
Ben NachmanWhat year was this that you were able to leave Germany?
Gretl Wald39.
Ben Nachman1939. Can you tell me about how conditions were after your father had given up his business until you were able to leave Germany?
Gretl WaldWell, we were pretty worried to go out of the house. When I got my papers to go, I went, you know.
Ben NachmanCan you recall when the Nuremberg laws were put into effect, how they affected you, the changes and... ?
Gretl WaldYeah, we couldn't have meet any more, who is not Jewish. And, you know, I don't quite know, but, well we were scared, very scared, and we waited for our papers to be able to go.
Ben NachmanHow were you able to maintain a livelihood during that period?
Gretl WaldSome neighbors brought us food at night, when it was dark.
Ben NachmanWere you able to sell any possessions?
Gretl WaldNo, we just left. No, my father packed some furniture and things, but we never got them, because the German government, they... they took it, you know.
Ben NachmanWhat happened to your household items?
Gretl WaldWell, we don't have anything. We all left it.
Ben NachmanWere you able to sell the house?
Gretl WaldYes, but we got so little for it, it was ridiculous.
Ben NachmanWere you forced to sell the house?
Gretl WaldYes, we sold the house. But we wanted to, since we left, since we went to this country, so...
Ben NachmanWere you the first of your family to leave?
Gretl WaldYes, I was the first.
Ben NachmanAnd you were able to leave in what year?
Gretl WaldIn '39.
Ben NachmanAnd how were you able to leave?
Gretl WaldI got my affidavit from a... I think he was a cousin of my dad's, but not... We didn't have that much to do with him. He lived in Germany. In, excuse me, in this country, and once a year he came visiting. They always looked us up, but they had closer relatives. My dad was a distant cousin, I would say.
Ben NachmanCan you describe your trip from the time you left home until you came to this country?
Gretl WaldWell, I went on the ship, and I came here and a friend picked me up. And I went to her house. She was married. I went for three weeks til I had a job.
Ben NachmanWhere was this?
Gretl WaldI took care of two little girls, a nanny, they say.
Ben NachmanWhere was this located?
Gretl WaldIt was in New York. It's very fancy. I... Fifth Ave. or something like that. It wasn't Fifth Ave. but I can't think of it.
Ben NachmanWere these relatives?
Gretl WaldNo. They never knew me, and I spoke very little English. That's why I went to see little girls, because they don't talk as much. We learned it fast, you see. They were very nice. He was a doctor.
Ben NachmanAnd how long did you stay with them?
Gretl WaldI stayed til it got so bad in Germany that I wanted to go to somebody. He was a very distant relative. He got the ticket and everything, for my dad. I gave him some money. He didn't get it on himself. And then where was I. Where was I, I was at those people, doctors. He said, in the meantime, I went to, had to get another job. I went to three ladies. A mother with a divorced daughter and another one was a widow. They were very, very nice. They actually helped me to make up my mind to go to Rochester, New York as well, where many lived, who sent part of my dad's things that he needs to immigrate. But the main papers, he didn't send them. He was worried that my dad might ask him for money or something, because the government didn't want to take them either, you know. So they helped, they talked me into going to Rochester and meet some men, and I did. I walked in the office, there was a girl sitting there. I didn't want to talk to her, you know. I wanted to see the man. I didn't want her to tell me, no, I can't see him. So I went in, and I introduced myself, so he said, and for this you make that long trip. I said, yeah, because my father and sister are going to be killed or who knows what, and I need that paper. So he says, okay, I send it to you. I said, no, I won't leave until I have the paper. So he said, well, I need a lawyer, you know, who, when you sign the things. What is the name of that?
Ben NachmanNotary public.
Gretl WaldNotary public, yeah. So he called notary public, and I got the paper, and I mailed it in Rochester before I went home, and my father and sister got to go a few days later. They didn't even go home anymore. They stayed in Stuttgart there, there's a place where they give you things, travel things, you know. And then they went from Rochester, from Stuttgart, they went direct to here.
Ben NachmanDid your sister travel with your father at this time?
Gretl WaldMy sister had no problem, because she was young, you know, they were on board. So yes, they came about a year after my- me.
Ben NachmanDuring that year, did you hear from them very often?
Gretl WaldYes, I heard, yeah.
Ben NachmanDid they describe how things were in Germany at that time?
Gretl WaldI don't think they would put it in the letter, because they opened the things, you know, in Germany.
Ben NachmanDid they ever tell you that any of your letters were censored?
Gretl WaldNo. I think they got my letters, probably.
Ben NachmanHow was your father and your sister able to survive as far as taking care of themselves? Feeding themselves, and so on.
Gretl WaldWell, like I told you, so many of the neighbors brought food in, and some things they could buy. But they rather didn't go in the store, you know. But we were lucky that since they let my dad go, which is, I can't understand, and I never knew why. But he had a lot of people who were very, he was very good friends with Bürgermeister, we called it, in Germany. It's the one who had the biggest job in town, you know, that he might have, people like this might have done it. But we never knew how. The main thing was he could go, they let him go.
Ben NachmanWho did he live with in Stetten?
Gretl WaldHe wasn't in Stetten. No, he went to Stuttgart. This is where he got his papers and everything. This is where we all had to go for our papers and all the things that are involved.
Ben NachmanMrs. Wald, you say your father was in Stuttgart prior to coming to this country, and who was he living with?
Gretl WaldThat's correct. They lived in a hotel.
Ben NachmanDid he have funds enough to keep them?
Gretl WaldI suppose so.
Ben NachmanWith your sister?
Gretl WaldYes.
Ben NachmanHow long were they there before they were able to leave for this country?
Gretl WaldThey came a year later than I did. I came in '39, and they came in '40.
Ben NachmanDid they ever express to you how things changed once World War II actually began, with the invasion of Poland?
Gretl WaldWell, yeah, but like I told you before, they didn't write too much, and probably not talk on the telephone either, because they always listened in, you know, watched every step you took.
Ben NachmanAnd when they came to this country, they came with nothing?
Gretl WaldThey had packed all their things in a van, and they were told if they all write there, then he can ask, write for them. But he never got anything. When we wrote after the war was over, they said they... got rid, the government got rid of it. It wasn't there anymore, you know.
Ben NachmanAnd when did your sister and your father arrive in this country?
Gretl WaldThey must have been, I don't remember, about a year later. I don't know, was it... I came here in April, so they probably came here in April or May or something like it. I really don't know.
Ben NachmanAnd then your father, you say, was sponsored by this cousin?
Gretl WaldNo, by the friend of that cousin.
Ben NachmanThe one who you went to see in Rochester?
Gretl WaldYeah, because the cousin didn't send it to him. The friend did, his friend. And the cousin only sent it to me, because, like I said before, he was afraid that my dad needs the government or him. But, of course, it wasn't that way.
Ben NachmanHow were you able to find this friend?
Gretl WaldThrough that cousin, yeah.
Ben NachmanWas your cousin unwilling to...
Gretl WaldNo, he was very nice, as long as he didn't do it anymore, you know. He wanted it to happen. And... that man who gave him every day with him everything he had, he was a very well-to-do man. He had a big department store where he lived. And he gave quite a few affidavits too, you know. But this was my dad, because he was afraid he might approach him that he needs money to live. But my sister and I, we both worked. And my dad, you know what he did? He did... Oh, now I can't think of it again. You know when we didn't have... What do you call this were you close your things with?
Ben NachmanZipper?
Gretl WaldZippers. They didn't have new ones anymore, so my dad cleaned them, the old zippers, because they didn't have them anymore in Germany. So that's what he did. He stayed til 9:30, 3 o'clock in the morning. And when we came home, we still helped, my sister and I, see?
Ben NachmanWhen your father and your sister arrived in this country, where did they go to live?
Gretl WaldI think I rented an apartment for them.
Ben NachmanAnd the three of you stayed there?
Gretl WaldThe three of them stayed there, yeah. Very small apartment.
Ben NachmanThis was also in New York?
Gretl WaldIt was in New York, yeah.
Ben NachmanAnd how long were you together before your sister and your father were able to find work?
Gretl WaldOh, my sister found work real fast. My dad did it at home, that cleaning of the zippers.
Ben NachmanWhat kind of work did your sister do?
Gretl WaldMy sister worked as a cook or something in a house.
Ben NachmanDid you leave any relatives behind in Germany after your father and sister had arrived?
Gretl WaldAll other relatives died. The uncles and cousins and everything, they were all killed.
Ben NachmanDuring the war?
Gretl WaldDuring the war, just a few got out, but most of them didn't.
Ben NachmanDid any family member survive the war?
Gretl WaldIn Germany?
Ben NachmanYes.
Gretl WaldNo, I don't think so.
Ben NachmanAnd how long did you stay in New York then?
Gretl WaldI stayed about three weeks until I had a job with the children. And then I lived there, you know. I did everything with the children, that's all I did. I dressed them, I ate with them, I took them to the park, but that's what I did.
Ben NachmanThen when your father and your sister were here, how long did you stay together?
Gretl WaldYou mean live together?
Ben NachmanYes.
Gretl WaldUntil I got engaged.
Ben NachmanAnd where did you meet your husband?
Gretl WaldWhere I meet, meet my husband? I met him at a dance at New Year's Eve. We had a dance, lots of people, you know. And I went with a different man, and my husband was on a different table, and he asked me to dance. And that's what I did. And then we talked, and two weeks later he went to Lincoln. He had already his ticket and everything, and we corresponded for three, four years. And then he wanted me to come to Lincoln because he wasn't allowed to travel. They considered him an enemy alien, you know, people who didn't live here, honored members. So when I didn't go, I felt if he can't come to me, it's too bad. I just didn't want to go after him.
Ben NachmanWhere was your husband from?
Gretl WaldMy husband came from Saxony. Not far from Dresden.
Ben NachmanIn Germany? And when did he come to this country?
Gretl WaldHe came a month before I did.
Ben NachmanAnd when you met him at New Year's Eve, was it a group of people that were recent immigrants to this country?
Gretl WaldMostly, yeah.
Ben NachmanSpeaking German, possibly.
Gretl WaldYeah, probably.
Ben NachmanAnd your husband was in Lincoln, Nebraska, how long before you married?
Gretl WaldIt was a few years because he went to Casper, Wyoming. They sent him here to take care of the office there, you know.
Ben NachmanWhat kind of work was he doing?
Gretl WaldMy husband was a CPA.
Ben NachmanAnd the firm he was with sent him to Casper, Wyoming?
Gretl WaldYeah. The firm here sent him to Casper to hold the place, so to speak.
Ben NachmanAnd how long was he in Casper?
Gretl WaldWe were three or four years and then my husband decided he wanted to take a CPA examination. But he had to go to university for a while in order to, you know, learn the things that he needs. So he went a year. And my husband had a doctor's degree from Germany. And he said he doesn't want a degree. All he wants is a few hours that he needs to pass the examination. So he, yeah, so he had it after a year. And they gave him a bachelor's degree, which he really didn't need, you know. But they were very, very helpful. This is why I am all for the university here. And my two boys went there.
Ben NachmanAt the University of Nebraska?
Gretl WaldYeah, yeah. And then later, one became a doctor to go to, couldn't do it here. He went to Omaha. And my other son, he went to Washington University in St. Louis.
Ben NachmanWhen did you and your husband marry?
Gretl WaldWhen did we marry. I was 27 when I got married.
Ben NachmanAnd you said he was here, what, three years before you got married?
Gretl WaldAbout.
Ben NachmanAnd he came back to see you then in New York?
Gretl WaldYeah, as soon as they, he had to go to the army, see. And then he could travel, you know, because he got, I don't remember now, he had to, he got his citizenship papers. But I don't remember when it was. But I got it in a few years earlier than I normally would have gotten it because my husband had it. But he only got it when he went in the army. My husband was in the war.
Ben NachmanWhen he was in the army, were you married at that time? Or did you marry after this?
Gretl WaldNo, we married before.
Ben NachmanBefore he went into the army?
Gretl WaldShortly before he went, yeah.
Ben NachmanYou were telling me that he was unable to travel to New York and he wanted you to come to Lincoln?
Gretl WaldBecause they considered him first as an enemy alien, you know. But then when he got the letter from the President that he's supposed to go into the army, then he was all right, you know. And then when he came to visit me, because he could travel.
Ben NachmanThat's when you decided to get married.
Gretl WaldYeah, and then we got engaged a week later, another week later, we got married.
Ben NachmanIn New York?
Gretl WaldYeah.
Ben NachmanYour father and your sister were still with you at this time?
Gretl WaldYes.
Ben NachmanThen you moved back to Lincoln, Nebraska?
Gretl WaldYeah.
Ben NachmanWhere did your sister go?
Gretl WaldMy sister stayed in New York.
Ben NachmanShe stayed in New York? Did she marry?
Gretl WaldYeah.
Ben NachmanIs she still living in New York?
Gretl WaldNo, now she lives in Long Island someplace.
Ben NachmanAnd what did your father do?
Gretl WaldI told you he had flour and grains.
Ben NachmanNo, I mean, what did he do after, from New York?
Gretl WaldOh, he moved to my sister, in with my sister. But he only lived there a few weeks, and then he had a stroke. And he was paralyzed for three and a half years. He was in the hospital all this time. And then he died.
Ben NachmanAnd you were living in Omaha, in Lincoln, I mean.
Gretl WaldI visited him a few times, and every time I stayed about six weeks, because he was in the hospital. He wasn't at home. So he couldn't talk. He couldn't walk. He was in bed all the years. Yeah. I don't even think he knew anymore. I think it affected his thinking, you know.
Ben NachmanDid your husband, when he was in the service, did he go overseas?
Gretl WaldYes.
Ben NachmanWhere did he go?
Gretl WaldGermany.
Ben NachmanHe did. And what was his job in the service?
Gretl WaldTo look, to find, tell him about some things, where things are and everything. He went to California, to a special school. It's a very famous school. University I can't think of its name, of the name.
Ben NachmanAnd was he in Germany while the war was still on?
Gretl WaldYes.
Ben NachmanWas he able to go to his home during this period?
Gretl WaldYes. I think he did. And he was worried that people might recognize him, you know, because after all, but he got through, and I think he was a big help. First of all, he spoke the language fluently. Without an accent, you know. And then he went to school about for six months in, I can't think of it, very, very well-known school there.
Ben NachmanIn Germany?
Gretl WaldNo, in here, in this country, to train those men who went to Germany, you know.
Ben NachmanAnd when did he get out of the service?
Gretl WaldHe was there close to two years.
Ben NachmanThen he returned to Lincoln.
Gretl WaldThen he returned to Lincoln. I didn't even know that he was in Germany. He wasn't supposed to tell even me where he is, where he goes. You know, something might come out and say, who knows what could have happened. But I was, he told me before that he doesn't write to me now for a while and I shouldn't worry. So I asked him where you're going. He says he's not allowed to tell, you know.
Ben NachmanWhen the war ended and things settled down, your husband returned from the service. Have you ever been able to travel back to your home?
Gretl WaldWe went once to Germany, yeah. I had my, I always wanted to bury my mother, to go to my mother's grave before I die. And we, now my husband lost both his parents.
Ben NachmanIn the war?
Gretl WaldIn the war. And the sad thing was, he sent them the tickets about the same time I sent my father and sister. But they were lucky, they got out and his parents didn't.
Ben NachmanThey perished in the war. Does he know any of the details?
Gretl WaldNo, but I think he knew where they, after the war was over, where they were killed.
Ben NachmanAnd when you went back to see your mother's grave, was the cemetery intact?
Gretl WaldBeautiful. It was in beautiful shape. I couldn't get over it because only German people took care of it, you know.
Ben NachmanYou were able to find your mother's grave?
Gretl WaldOh yes, my grandmother was buried there. And they were very nice, you know. We went to the police, we wanted to know a few things, and they couldn't have been any nicer.
Ben NachmanWere you able to see your home?
Gretl WaldYeah, we went inside.
Ben NachmanYou were, did you see the people?
Gretl WaldYeah, it was, they had a shoe shop, they sold shoes.
Ben NachmanDid you know the people from when you were living there?
Gretl WaldNo.
Ben NachmanYou didn't know the people?
Gretl WaldNo. My dad did, but I was, I was gone already then, you know. So, it was very, so many of the people they wanted us to stay overnight, you know. But I couldn't have, I really, it was, the whole thing was like it wasn't real, you know. Like, I can't describe it, but I didn't want to stay longer.
Ben NachmanWere you able to see anyone there that you knew and grow up?
Gretl WaldYes, I saw a few people who I knew that they weren't against Jewish people, you know.
Ben NachmanAnd how did they treat you when you were there?
Gretl WaldVery nice. They each wanted me to stay there and eat there, us, you know. But I didn't want to stay.
Ben NachmanDid any of the conversation get around to those war years?
Gretl WaldNo.
Ben NachmanNo one talked about it?
Gretl WaldNo, I didn't want to.
Ben NachmanHow long...
Gretl WaldI don't think they would have liked it either. I'm sure they were embarrassed about the whole thing, you know. But they had to go along, they were afraid that something might happen to them.
Ben NachmanThe synagogue that you attended as a child, was that destroyed on Kristallnacht?
Gretl WaldYeah.
Ben NachmanHad they rebuilt a synagogue or that synagogue after the war?
Gretl WaldI don't know.
Ben NachmanYou didn't get to find out?
Gretl WaldI doubt it very much.
Ben NachmanWere there some Jewish people living in the town when you were there?
Gretl WaldNo, they all left.
Ben NachmanNo Jewish community any further?
Gretl WaldI don't think so.
Ben NachmanWhen you returned then to Omaha and your husband was out of the service, can you tell me a little bit about your life in Lincoln, Nebraska, your family?
Gretl WaldYeah. Wait a moment. We went first to Casper, Wyoming. This is where my husband went after he was here a few years. They wanted him. I told you to be the head of the office.
Ben NachmanWere you married at that time?
Gretl WaldYes.
Ben NachmanAnd you lived in Casper, Wyoming?
Gretl WaldYeah, uh-huh.
Ben NachmanFor how long?
Gretl WaldFor about four years and he decided he wants to go to university and gets a few hours that he needs for passing the CPA examination.
Ben NachmanSo you returned to Lincoln?
Gretl WaldSo we returned to Lincoln.
Ben NachmanDid he continue working at that time or was he a full-time student?
Gretl WaldNo, he was a full-time student. He did a little work, but I got a job.
Ben NachmanWhat kind of work did you do?
Gretl WaldI worked at a department store here. It was Gold's at that time, Gold's + Company. And my my hus- Henry worked a few hours that he could spare, you know. But then I became pregnant after six months.
Ben NachmanWhat kind of work did you do in the department store?
Gretl WaldI sold.
Ben NachmanYou're a seamstress?
Gretl WaldNot seamstress. I just sold what they had for sale. I worked in Gold's basement. They had curtains and clothes and everything you can think of.
Ben NachmanYou were a salesperson?
Gretl WaldYeah, yeah.
Ben NachmanAnd when your husband finished school, did he go back to work with the same company?
Gretl WaldHe worked for the... here for the company, yeah.
Ben NachmanWas it the same company he worked for before?
Gretl WaldBefore he went to Wyoming.
Ben NachmanAs a CPA?
Gretl WaldYeah, at that time, many worked for the company. They hired him already when he wasn't a CPA, you know. But he wanted to start on his own. After he was a CPA, he didn't want to work office for anybody else.
Ben NachmanSo he established his own firm?
Gretl WaldHe established his own office.
Ben NachmanDoing public accounting?
Gretl WaldYeah, he had two partners. One of them went to school with him. And one of them did the work for school and the other one copied it. And once a professor wrote under it: "Please, what you don't understand, look up at Henry Wald or look up at..." his name was Kleppinger. Because, you know, they just wanted to have time like Henry, who worked, you know. So it was fun, real nice.
Ben NachmanAnd can you tell me about your boys?
Gretl WaldYeah. One is a neurosurgeon in Vermont. And the other one is a professor at the university in Gainesville.
Ben NachmanIs the neurosurgeon, is he married?
Gretl WaldYes, he has two children.
Ben NachmanSo you have two grandchildren with that son?
Gretl WaldYeah, and the other one had two children, too.
Ben NachmanThe one that's the professor?
Gretl WaldYeah.
Ben NachmanWhat does he teach?
Gretl WaldHe teaches political science.
Ben NachmanAt the University of Florida?
Gretl WaldMm-hmm.
Ben NachmanDo you get to see your sons and your grandchildren often?
Gretl WaldYeah, no, not often. Once or twice a year.
Ben NachmanDo they get back to see you or do you go see them?
Gretl WaldNo, they were here when we had that, where they honored Henry, you know, at the university. They both came. And they had a speaker, and my younger son, the one at the university, he said a few words, too. He's a wonderful speaker. He was in Israel twice for six months and taught at the university there.
Ben NachmanCan you tell me about your husband being honored at the university here?
Gretl WaldYeah, they had the... I have a paper here, the whole, you know, where they describe. Well, he went to the university here, and the two boys went to the university, and I gave to the university.
Ben NachmanWere they honoring him for a gift that he had given to the university?
Gretl WaldNo, they did it... You want... I could show it, no. They, you know, they just honored him, you know, and he did afterwards he was connected to the university, you know. So that was about it.
Ben NachmanMrs. Wald, as you look back upon your life and what you had to go through, the times of growing up in Germany and in the war years and coming to this country, the difficulty of getting established, raising a family and raising two fine sons, what message do you have to give us for that life of yours?
Gretl WaldWell, it was in part a very, very nice life. On the other hand, it took us a terribly long time to get used to this country. We didn't know the language- we knew the language, but not well enough. And I would do the same thing again that I did then.
Ben NachmanDo you have a message that you would leave for the younger people today describing your lifetime?
Gretl WaldWell, it was... See, I didn't have so much to feel sorry for. First of all I got out in time and I learned the language. But I saw sad things, also many people who couldn't get out, you know. All my family practically got killed. My husband's parents got killed. I was lucky. My closest family, I got over here, but lots of other relatives had to die.
Ben NachmanWell, I'd like to thank you on behalf of the survivors of the Shoah Visual History Foundation for allowing us to come in and to speak to you. Thank you.
Gretl WaldYou're welcome.
Ben NachmanMrs. Wald, can you describe this for me?
Gretl WaldThey show German women, actually, German Jewish women, what the Nazis did. Because the men were gone already, some of the women were jailed and some of them got shot.
Ben NachmanAnd this was given at the university?
Gretl WaldYeah, yeah. Besides the talking, there were pictures. He showed pictures. And it was very interesting. I was so surprised there wasn't an empty seat, and I was worried.
Ben NachmanAnd this lectureship is named in honor of your husband, is that right?
Gretl WaldYeah, right. I've never had a picture taken. This is when she got married.
Ben NachmanMrs. Wald, can you tell me who this picture is?
Gretl WaldThis is a picture of my father.
Ben NachmanAnd when was that taken?
Gretl WaldIt was quite a few years. He died about ten years ago here in this country, and it was, oh, I'm sure it was at least twenty years along.
Ben NachmanWas it taken in Germany?
Gretl WaldIn Germany, yeah.
Ben NachmanAnd who is this picture of Mrs. Wald?
Gretl WaldThis is a picture of my mother. She was, that was before she was married. Now she, later on, and my mother didn't like her having her picture taken. There are very few I got of her. But this one, I think, is a very nice picture.
Ben NachmanAnd she died following surgery while still in Germany?
Gretl WaldYeah, she was only 43 years old. But she wasn't. I never knew her.
Ben NachmanWho are these people, Mrs. Wald?
Gretl WaldThose are Henry's parents. I never met them. They died because I had a chance to come over here.
Ben NachmanThey were murdered during the war?
Gretl WaldThey were killed in a concentration camp.
Ben NachmanDo you know which camp they were in?
Gretl WaldI knew, but I don't, I really don't know anymore. There were so many.
Ben NachmanMrs. Wald, can you tell me who's in this picture?
Gretl WaldYes, I start left-hand side with my granddaughter. Her name is Jaina. She's her father standing next to her. And next to her father is her mother. And that is my other son, Steve, and his wife. And next to his wife is on the right-hand side. Now it's under his wife's picture. It's Sarah, she's Steve's daughter, and myself, and the little daughter of Kenneth. Her name is Jaina. And my sister next to me and above, between my sister and myself, is my brother-in-law, Rudy is his name. I think we got everybody.