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Gretl Wald Shoah Foundation Testimony

From the collection of the USC Shoah Foundation

  Michael Moehring

There's a... surprising that those haven't all gone south. It was so cold yesterday.

Gretl Wald

I don't think they go.

Ben Nachman

No, these I think stay here.

Gretl Wald

I don't think so. But usually, at least they're not that loud. I don't know. They probably complain because it's so cold.

How many children do you have?

Ben Nachman

Three.

Gretl Wald

Three.

Ben Nachman

All daughters, all married.

Gretl Wald

Oh, really?

Ben Nachman

All living in Scottsdale, Arizona.

Gretl Wald

The same place, please.

Ben Nachman

January 19, 1996, interviewing the survivor Gretel Wald, W-A-L-D. My name is Ben Nachman, N-A-C-H-M-A-N, Lincoln, Nebraska, Language English. Can you give us your name, please?

Gretl Wald

Gretel Wald.

Ben Nachman

And how do you spell your last name?

Gretl Wald

W-A-L-D.

Ben Nachman

And can you give me your maiden name?

Gretl Wald

Rothschild.

Ben Nachman

And how do you spell that?

Gretl Wald

R-O-T-H-S-C-H-I-L-D.

Ben Nachman

And when were you born?

Gretl Wald

When?

Ben Nachman

Yes.

Gretl Wald

Yeah, in September 17, 1913.

Ben Nachman

And where were you born?

Gretl Wald

I was born in Öhringen. It's in Württemberg, southern Germany.

Ben Nachman

And how do you spell the name of the city you were born in?

Gretl Wald

W-Ü, -Ü-E-T-T-E-M-B-E-R-G.

Ben Nachman

Can you tell me your age, Mrs. Wald?

Gretl Wald

82. That I don't like.

Ben Nachman

Can you tell me about the city you were born in?

Gretl Wald

I was born in Öhringen.

Ben Nachman

And how large a city was that?

Gretl Wald

Oh, about 5,000 people.

Ben Nachman

How many Jewish people lived there at that time?

Gretl Wald

We had at least 75 families.

Ben Nachman

Was it an active Jewish community?

Gretl Wald

Very. My father was a president of it.

Ben Nachman

Of the Jewish community?

Gretl Wald

Of the Jewish community.

Ben Nachman

Did you have just one synagogue in the town?

Gretl Wald

Yeah.

Ben Nachman

And did your family attend the synagogue often?

Gretl Wald

Yes.

Ben Nachman

Did you attend on the Sabbath?

Gretl Wald

No, I didn't. My parents did.

Ben Nachman

And how about on holidays? Did you attend on holidays?

Gretl Wald

Yes, I did.

Ben Nachman

Did you have any religious education?

Gretl Wald

Oh, yes.

Ben Nachman

Can you describe that for me, please?

Gretl Wald

Yeah, we had school twice a week. If I remember correctly, it was Wednesday and Sunday. We had another lesson.

Ben Nachman

These were Hebrew lessons?

Gretl Wald

Hebrew yeah.

Ben Nachman

Was this following your normal schooling?

Gretl Wald

I can't quite understand how you mean that.

Ben Nachman

Did you attend the Hebrew school after you had gone to your public school?

Gretl Wald

Yeah. Usually, after the public school was over, we had the Hebrew school.

Ben Nachman

And you attended public school in Öhringen?

Gretl Wald

In Lincoln.

Ben Nachman

Yes, you did.

Gretl Wald

Yeah. Not Lincoln. In Öhringen.

Ben Nachman

Öhringen.

Gretl Wald

I'm sorry.

Ben Nachman

And how far did you attend school? How long were you in school?

Gretl Wald

Regular school, how long? I had high school.

Ben Nachman

You finished high school?

Gretl Wald

Finished high school.

Ben Nachman

Did you go to school beyond that?

Gretl Wald

I went to a business school.

Ben Nachman

Also in the same city?

Gretl Wald

Yes.

Ben Nachman

What did you study in the business school?

Gretl Wald

Oh, typing and keeping books and whatever you do in a business, you know.

Ben Nachman

What kind of work did your father do?

Gretl Wald

My father, we... he was... we were trading wheat and buying flours and grains. And my dad sold it to bakers and some other people wanted it.

Ben Nachman

Did he actually buy and keep this grain or was it?

Gretl Wald

Yes. We had a big place where we stored it.

Ben Nachman

And how did you ship the grain?

Gretl Wald

We had one big wagon with two horses. It's a very heavy wagon.

Ben Nachman

Did you deliver the grain long distances?

Gretl Wald

Yes, we did, yeah. But mostly it was in Württemberg, where I was born, you know.

Ben Nachman

In this town that you lived in, can you describe your home for me?

Gretl Wald

It was so long ago. We had our office downstairs. Then we had a first floor with a living room and a dining room and a bedroom. And then upstairs, the same thing. And then we had another floor. We had a girl working for us. She had a room upstairs. And then we had an attic. It was a big house.

Ben Nachman

Did it have a lot of land with the house?

Gretl Wald

No, nothing. It was in the city, we didn't have it there. We had a big garden, but we had to go across the street. Then go down a little bit, you know, down the street.

Ben Nachman

What kind of heating did you have in this house?

Gretl Wald

Ovens, plain ovens, that we heat with coal and wood.

Ben Nachman

Were these located on each floor of the house?

Gretl Wald

On each floor, yeah.

Ben Nachman

And did you have plumbing?

Gretl Wald

Yes, sure.

Ben Nachman

Also indoor plumbing?

Gretl Wald

Yes.

Ben Nachman

And what kind of life did you have in this town?

Gretl Wald

Very nice.

Ben Nachman

You lived well?

Gretl Wald

Yeah. Everybody knew us, you know. See, my dad was born in Öhringen. So it was a very nice living for a while.

Ben Nachman

Did you have a lot of Jewish friends?

Gretl Wald

Yes.

Ben Nachman

Did you also have friendships with the non-Jewish?

Gretl Wald

Oh, yes. It's the same thing.

Ben Nachman

Relationships were good.

Gretl Wald

Very good.

Ben Nachman

Got along well with all your neighbors.

Gretl Wald

Oh, yes.

Ben Nachman

Had your father's family been in this city for a lot of years?

Gretl Wald

Yes. My dad was born in that house.

Ben Nachman

So the house did belong to the family for quite some time?

Gretl Wald

For quite some time.

Ben Nachman

How many brothers and sisters did you have?

Gretl Wald

I had one sister.

Ben Nachman

Just one sister. She older or younger?

Gretl Wald

She's younger.

Ben Nachman

She's younger. Did she also attend the same schools?

Gretl Wald

I don't think she went to a business school. She went to regular school, and I don't know what else to tell you.

Ben Nachman

During the Jewish holidays, did you have normal holiday meals with the family?

Gretl Wald

Yes.

Ben Nachman

Did you have an extended family that came to these occasions?

Gretl Wald

Yes.

Ben Nachman

Can you tell me who they were?

Gretl Wald

Well, they were brothers and sisters of my father and mother, you know.

Ben Nachman

Did they live in the same town?

Gretl Wald

No.

Ben Nachman

They would travel to your home?

Gretl Wald

Yes. In fact, we always had company they called us Hotel Rothschild, because we always had people.

Ben Nachman

Did you do any traveling outside of your town?

Gretl Wald

Oh, yes.

Ben Nachman

Where did you travel to?

Gretl Wald

Well, I went to Frankfurt. I had relatives there, and I went to Nuremberg. I had relatives there, too.

Ben Nachman

How did you get around in your travel?

Gretl Wald

With a train.

Ben Nachman

With a train?

Gretl Wald

Mm-hmm.

Ben Nachman

And the relationships with the family and with the neighbors was all very good at that time.

Gretl Wald

Very good, yeah.

Ben Nachman

No problems? In growing up, then, did you take a job in the field you were trained in?

Gretl Wald

No, I worked for my dad. He had an office.

Ben Nachman

And what was your job at the office?

Gretl Wald

Oh, well, typing. And I never was very good in keeping books. I tried not to have to do it. But my dad had somebody else working there. So, it was all right.

Ben Nachman

Was your mother also from this area?

Gretl Wald

She was from, I think... I don't even know where it was. She comes from Niederstetten. That's where she's born.

Ben Nachman

Is that far away from...

Gretl Wald

No, nothing was far.

Ben Nachman

And how did your mother and father meet?

Gretl Wald

I I, they probably were introduced, if I remember correctly.

Ben Nachman

Did the synagogue in the town have a rabbi, a full-time rabbi?

Gretl Wald

He wasn't a real rabbi. He was a teacher, I would say, because he taught the children, too. And he did the service, and I think... I don't think we had a rabbi, ever.

Ben Nachman

This was a full-time job for him?

Gretl Wald

Yeah, yes.

Ben Nachman

In growing up, then, did you do any other traveling other than to just visit relatives as a family?

Gretl Wald

Yeah, I'm just thinking. No, mostly we went, when there was vacation, my sister and I. And my parents, once they... I had relatives in Offenburg, and this is just so close... You go to Switzerland from there. And my parents went, and they left us with the relatives in Offenburg. Yeah, that's about it.

Ben Nachman

How were economic conditions for you during this period?

Gretl Wald

Very good.

Ben Nachman

Family made a nice living?

Gretl Wald

Yes, very nice.

Ben Nachman

And was your mother strictly a housewife?

Gretl Wald

Well, we had help all the time, but she did some things, yeah. But we had a maid, we had her for 25 years. And sometimes she didn't want my mother to come in the kitchen. She wanted to do alone everything, you know.

Ben Nachman

So... What did your mother do to occupy herself?

Gretl Wald

Well, she did a lot of sewing and handiwork, and I really don't know, but to me, she was never sitting, really, you know. She did a lot of sewing, knitting, things like that.

Ben Nachman

How would you describe your growing up years, your young years in Germany?

Gretl Wald

It was very nice until my mother died. I was only 17 when she died. My sister was 11, so I actually brought up my sister, because my dad was, I think you would say today nervous breakdown. I wouldn't- I didn't let him go out of the house by himself. I always went after him, because I was worried he might do some things.

Ben Nachman

Was this brought on by the death of your mother?

Gretl Wald

Yeah, see, my mother was only 43, and my dad at that time was 59, so it was 16 years apart.

Ben Nachman

What did she die from?

Gretl Wald

She had her leg amputated, she had a blood clot.

Ben Nachman

And died during surgery?

Gretl Wald

No, she was about a week, alive.

Ben Nachman

Did you help with the household at that time?

Gretl Wald

A little bit, we helped. But we had a woman who came in for washing and stuff like that. So I had to help when we did the cleaning and everything, so I learned, you know. My mother always wanted me to help, you know.

Ben Nachman

Do you remember what year this was?

Gretl Wald

What?

Ben Nachman

At the time of your mother's death?

Gretl Wald

No, she was, she died. But I think I have it written down, don't I? It's in that book, yeah.

Ben Nachman

When did you notice things starting to change in Germany?

Gretl Wald

Well, when Hitler came into Germany, so to speak, you know.

Ben Nachman

Did you notice a change in the people in your town?

Gretl Wald

Not too bad. When he really came into office, then I felt it.

Ben Nachman

By your neighbors?

Gretl Wald

By everybody, we had some real good neighbors still. When Hitler came, they brought us food over at night, you know. But some of them wouldn't even say hello anymore. Children spit at you when you went across the street. We had to close our, we had, not the windows, what you have in front of the windows outside, but I can't think of it, what you call it.

Ben Nachman

Shutters?

Gretl Wald

Something like it, yeah, yeah.

Ben Nachman

Did this affect your father's business at this time?

Gretl Wald

Not in the beginning, really, but afterwards he gave it up, you know.

Ben Nachman

Did he close the business?

Gretl Wald

Yeah.

Ben Nachman

Was not able to sell it?

Gretl Wald

No. He didn't try to sell it. It was with the house. It was in the house, you know, downstairs.

Ben Nachman

As the war progressed, or as Hitler was in power, can you describe what happened to your family then? Did you start to leave as part of the country?

Gretl Wald

Well, my dad was picked up with about ten other men and was put into jail.

Ben Nachman

Do you remember when this was?

Gretl Wald

No, I can't remember. I don't remember.

Ben Nachman

Was this before Kristallnacht?

Gretl Wald

It was before Kristallnacht, yeah.

Ben Nachman

And why did they pick him up?

Gretl Wald

Because they picked up ten or twelve Jewish men, and my dad was a president of the congregation, so naturally they picked him up, you know.

Ben Nachman

Where did they take him?

Gretl Wald

Jail.

Ben Nachman

And how long was he in jail?

Gretl Wald

He was in jail a few hours, because later on in the evening my sister and I visited him and brought him a few things, for example, his prayerbook and pajama. And a, the jail warden, when he saw it he wanted to know our name. And he says, well, your father can go home with you. And he was the only one of all those men who was sent home. The others, I never knew, I never knew where they sent them. None of them came back.

Ben Nachman

But your father was permitted to come home.

Gretl Wald

Yeah, and I still, I also see why he came home, why they let him go, see. It was like a mirracle, because all the others were gone.

Ben Nachman

When he came home, how were conditions?

Gretl Wald

In the meantime, my uncle left, because my dad and my uncle had the business together, and he was in the house, and he took a, oh, where you ride with, I can't think of the name now, a bicycle, excuse me, a bicycle, and went to a sister, sister-in-law. He went a few stations where there is a train, and then he left the bicycle and went to the sister-in-law, and there were two other men hiding. She's a widow. She was, yeah, she was the sister of his wife.

Ben Nachman

And she was hiding him?

Gretl Wald

Yeah, and two other men.

Ben Nachman

Where was this that this took place?

Gretl Wald

Stuttgart.

Ben Nachman

Were they able to survive the war?

Gretl Wald

Yeah, in the meantime, we got him, you know, I was still there. It was about in '39 when I left, and my uncle came about, and his wife came about a year later. So it must be 1940, because I left in '39.

Ben Nachman

Well, did your father, was he able to leave with you when you left Germany?

Gretl Wald

My father went after my uncle, because the man who gave us papers and everything, he wanted a letter that my dad takes care of himself, that he wouldn't, that the country's government doesn't have to take care of him. And that man didn't want to give it to me because he was worried, you know, that my dad might take advantage of him. So I went there. I lived in New York then, and I flew there to meet some men, talk to him.

Ben Nachman

When were you first trying to get out of Germany?

Gretl Wald

When? Oh, I tried maybe in 1946 or so. I kept on writing until he was, in fact, he sent me a letter, he said, so he could get rid of me with my writing. He sent me his affidavit and everything. See, I didn't need that special letter, because my dad was pretty old, and they were worried, you know.

Ben Nachman

What year was this that you were able to leave Germany?

Gretl Wald

39.

Ben Nachman

1939. Can you tell me about how conditions were after your father had given up his business until you were able to leave Germany?

Gretl Wald

Well, we were pretty worried to go out of the house. When I got my papers to go, I went, you know.

Ben Nachman

Can you recall when the Nuremberg laws were put into effect, how they affected you, the changes and... ?

Gretl Wald

Yeah, we couldn't have meet any more, who is not Jewish. And, you know, I don't quite know, but, well we were scared, very scared, and we waited for our papers to be able to go.

Ben Nachman

How were you able to maintain a livelihood during that period?

Gretl Wald

Some neighbors brought us food at night, when it was dark.

Ben Nachman

Were you able to sell any possessions?

Gretl Wald

No, we just left. No, my father packed some furniture and things, but we never got them, because the German government, they... they took it, you know.

Ben Nachman

What happened to your household items?

Gretl Wald

Well, we don't have anything. We all left it.

Ben Nachman

Were you able to sell the house?

Gretl Wald

Yes, but we got so little for it, it was ridiculous.

Ben Nachman

Were you forced to sell the house?

Gretl Wald

Yes, we sold the house. But we wanted to, since we left, since we went to this country, so...

Ben Nachman

Were you the first of your family to leave?

Gretl Wald

Yes, I was the first.

Ben Nachman

And you were able to leave in what year?

Gretl Wald

In '39.

Ben Nachman

And how were you able to leave?

Gretl Wald

I got my affidavit from a... I think he was a cousin of my dad's, but not... We didn't have that much to do with him. He lived in Germany. In, excuse me, in this country, and once a year he came visiting. They always looked us up, but they had closer relatives. My dad was a distant cousin, I would say.

Ben Nachman

Can you describe your trip from the time you left home until you came to this country?

Gretl Wald

Well, I went on the ship, and I came here and a friend picked me up. And I went to her house. She was married. I went for three weeks til I had a job.

Ben Nachman

Where was this?

Gretl Wald

I took care of two little girls, a nanny, they say.

Ben Nachman

Where was this located?

Gretl Wald

It was in New York. It's very fancy. I... Fifth Ave. or something like that. It wasn't Fifth Ave. but I can't think of it.

Ben Nachman

Were these relatives?

Gretl Wald

No. They never knew me, and I spoke very little English. That's why I went to see little girls, because they don't talk as much. We learned it fast, you see. They were very nice. He was a doctor.

Ben Nachman

And how long did you stay with them?

Gretl Wald

I stayed til it got so bad in Germany that I wanted to go to somebody. He was a very distant relative. He got the ticket and everything, for my dad. I gave him some money. He didn't get it on himself. And then where was I. Where was I, I was at those people, doctors. He said, in the meantime, I went to, had to get another job. I went to three ladies. A mother with a divorced daughter and another one was a widow. They were very, very nice. They actually helped me to make up my mind to go to Rochester, New York as well, where many lived, who sent part of my dad's things that he needs to immigrate. But the main papers, he didn't send them. He was worried that my dad might ask him for money or something, because the government didn't want to take them either, you know. So they helped, they talked me into going to Rochester and meet some men, and I did. I walked in the office, there was a girl sitting there. I didn't want to talk to her, you know. I wanted to see the man. I didn't want her to tell me, no, I can't see him. So I went in, and I introduced myself, so he said, and for this you make that long trip. I said, yeah, because my father and sister are going to be killed or who knows what, and I need that paper. So he says, okay, I send it to you. I said, no, I won't leave until I have the paper. So he said, well, I need a lawyer, you know, who, when you sign the things. What is the name of that?

Ben Nachman

Notary public.

Gretl Wald

Notary public, yeah. So he called notary public, and I got the paper, and I mailed it in Rochester before I went home, and my father and sister got to go a few days later. They didn't even go home anymore. They stayed in Stuttgart there, there's a place where they give you things, travel things, you know. And then they went from Rochester, from Stuttgart, they went direct to here.

Ben Nachman

Did your sister travel with your father at this time?

Gretl Wald

My sister had no problem, because she was young, you know, they were on board. So yes, they came about a year after my- me.

Ben Nachman

During that year, did you hear from them very often?

Gretl Wald

Yes, I heard, yeah.

Ben Nachman

Did they describe how things were in Germany at that time?

Gretl Wald

I don't think they would put it in the letter, because they opened the things, you know, in Germany.

Ben Nachman

Did they ever tell you that any of your letters were censored?

Gretl Wald

No. I think they got my letters, probably.

Ben Nachman

How was your father and your sister able to survive as far as taking care of themselves? Feeding themselves, and so on.

Gretl Wald

Well, like I told you, so many of the neighbors brought food in, and some things they could buy. But they rather didn't go in the store, you know. But we were lucky that since they let my dad go, which is, I can't understand, and I never knew why. But he had a lot of people who were very, he was very good friends with Bürgermeister, we called it, in Germany. It's the one who had the biggest job in town, you know, that he might have, people like this might have done it. But we never knew how. The main thing was he could go, they let him go.

Ben Nachman

Who did he live with in Stetten?

Gretl Wald

He wasn't in Stetten. No, he went to Stuttgart. This is where he got his papers and everything. This is where we all had to go for our papers and all the things that are involved.

Ben Nachman

Mrs. Wald, you say your father was in Stuttgart prior to coming to this country, and who was he living with?

Gretl Wald

That's correct. They lived in a hotel.

Ben Nachman

Did he have funds enough to keep them?

Gretl Wald

I suppose so.

Ben Nachman

With your sister?

Gretl Wald

Yes.

Ben Nachman

How long were they there before they were able to leave for this country?

Gretl Wald

They came a year later than I did. I came in '39, and they came in '40.

Ben Nachman

Did they ever express to you how things changed once World War II actually began, with the invasion of Poland?

Gretl Wald

Well, yeah, but like I told you before, they didn't write too much, and probably not talk on the telephone either, because they always listened in, you know, watched every step you took.

Ben Nachman

And when they came to this country, they came with nothing?

Gretl Wald

They had packed all their things in a van, and they were told if they all write there, then he can ask, write for them. But he never got anything. When we wrote after the war was over, they said they... got rid, the government got rid of it. It wasn't there anymore, you know.

Ben Nachman

And when did your sister and your father arrive in this country?

Gretl Wald

They must have been, I don't remember, about a year later. I don't know, was it... I came here in April, so they probably came here in April or May or something like it. I really don't know.

Ben Nachman

And then your father, you say, was sponsored by this cousin?

Gretl Wald

No, by the friend of that cousin.

Ben Nachman

The one who you went to see in Rochester?

Gretl Wald

Yeah, because the cousin didn't send it to him. The friend did, his friend. And the cousin only sent it to me, because, like I said before, he was afraid that my dad needs the government or him. But, of course, it wasn't that way.

Ben Nachman

How were you able to find this friend?

Gretl Wald

Through that cousin, yeah.

Ben Nachman

Was your cousin unwilling to...

Gretl Wald

No, he was very nice, as long as he didn't do it anymore, you know. He wanted it to happen. And... that man who gave him every day with him everything he had, he was a very well-to-do man. He had a big department store where he lived. And he gave quite a few affidavits too, you know. But this was my dad, because he was afraid he might approach him that he needs money to live. But my sister and I, we both worked. And my dad, you know what he did? He did... Oh, now I can't think of it again. You know when we didn't have... What do you call this were you close your things with?

Ben Nachman

Zipper?

Gretl Wald

Zippers. They didn't have new ones anymore, so my dad cleaned them, the old zippers, because they didn't have them anymore in Germany. So that's what he did. He stayed til 9:30, 3 o'clock in the morning. And when we came home, we still helped, my sister and I, see?

Ben Nachman

When your father and your sister arrived in this country, where did they go to live?

Gretl Wald

I think I rented an apartment for them.

Ben Nachman

And the three of you stayed there?

Gretl Wald

The three of them stayed there, yeah. Very small apartment.

Ben Nachman

This was also in New York?

Gretl Wald

It was in New York, yeah.

Ben Nachman

And how long were you together before your sister and your father were able to find work?

Gretl Wald

Oh, my sister found work real fast. My dad did it at home, that cleaning of the zippers.

Ben Nachman

What kind of work did your sister do?

Gretl Wald

My sister worked as a cook or something in a house.

Ben Nachman

Did you leave any relatives behind in Germany after your father and sister had arrived?

Gretl Wald

All other relatives died. The uncles and cousins and everything, they were all killed.

Ben Nachman

During the war?

Gretl Wald

During the war, just a few got out, but most of them didn't.

Ben Nachman

Did any family member survive the war?

Gretl Wald

In Germany?

Ben Nachman

Yes.

Gretl Wald

No, I don't think so.

Ben Nachman

And how long did you stay in New York then?

Gretl Wald

I stayed about three weeks until I had a job with the children. And then I lived there, you know. I did everything with the children, that's all I did. I dressed them, I ate with them, I took them to the park, but that's what I did.

Ben Nachman

Then when your father and your sister were here, how long did you stay together?

Gretl Wald

You mean live together?

Ben Nachman

Yes.

Gretl Wald

Until I got engaged.

Ben Nachman

And where did you meet your husband?

Gretl Wald

Where I meet, meet my husband? I met him at a dance at New Year's Eve. We had a dance, lots of people, you know. And I went with a different man, and my husband was on a different table, and he asked me to dance. And that's what I did. And then we talked, and two weeks later he went to Lincoln. He had already his ticket and everything, and we corresponded for three, four years. And then he wanted me to come to Lincoln because he wasn't allowed to travel. They considered him an enemy alien, you know, people who didn't live here, honored members. So when I didn't go, I felt if he can't come to me, it's too bad. I just didn't want to go after him.

Ben Nachman

Where was your husband from?

Gretl Wald

My husband came from Saxony. Not far from Dresden.

Ben Nachman

In Germany? And when did he come to this country?

Gretl Wald

He came a month before I did.

Ben Nachman

And when you met him at New Year's Eve, was it a group of people that were recent immigrants to this country?

Gretl Wald

Mostly, yeah.

Ben Nachman

Speaking German, possibly.

Gretl Wald

Yeah, probably.

Ben Nachman

And your husband was in Lincoln, Nebraska, how long before you married?

Gretl Wald

It was a few years because he went to Casper, Wyoming. They sent him here to take care of the office there, you know.

Ben Nachman

What kind of work was he doing?

Gretl Wald

My husband was a CPA.

Ben Nachman

And the firm he was with sent him to Casper, Wyoming?

Gretl Wald

Yeah. The firm here sent him to Casper to hold the place, so to speak.

Ben Nachman

And how long was he in Casper?

Gretl Wald

We were three or four years and then my husband decided he wanted to take a CPA examination. But he had to go to university for a while in order to, you know, learn the things that he needs. So he went a year. And my husband had a doctor's degree from Germany. And he said he doesn't want a degree. All he wants is a few hours that he needs to pass the examination. So he, yeah, so he had it after a year. And they gave him a bachelor's degree, which he really didn't need, you know. But they were very, very helpful. This is why I am all for the university here. And my two boys went there.

Ben Nachman

At the University of Nebraska?

Gretl Wald

Yeah, yeah. And then later, one became a doctor to go to, couldn't do it here. He went to Omaha. And my other son, he went to Washington University in St. Louis.

Ben Nachman

When did you and your husband marry?

Gretl Wald

When did we marry. I was 27 when I got married.

Ben Nachman

And you said he was here, what, three years before you got married?

Gretl Wald

About.

Ben Nachman

And he came back to see you then in New York?

Gretl Wald

Yeah, as soon as they, he had to go to the army, see. And then he could travel, you know, because he got, I don't remember now, he had to, he got his citizenship papers. But I don't remember when it was. But I got it in a few years earlier than I normally would have gotten it because my husband had it. But he only got it when he went in the army. My husband was in the war.

Ben Nachman

When he was in the army, were you married at that time? Or did you marry after this?

Gretl Wald

No, we married before.

Ben Nachman

Before he went into the army?

Gretl Wald

Shortly before he went, yeah.

Ben Nachman

You were telling me that he was unable to travel to New York and he wanted you to come to Lincoln?

Gretl Wald

Because they considered him first as an enemy alien, you know. But then when he got the letter from the President that he's supposed to go into the army, then he was all right, you know. And then when he came to visit me, because he could travel.

Ben Nachman

That's when you decided to get married.

Gretl Wald

Yeah, and then we got engaged a week later, another week later, we got married.

Ben Nachman

In New York?

Gretl Wald

Yeah.

Ben Nachman

Your father and your sister were still with you at this time?

Gretl Wald

Yes.

Ben Nachman

Then you moved back to Lincoln, Nebraska?

Gretl Wald

Yeah.

Ben Nachman

Where did your sister go?

Gretl Wald

My sister stayed in New York.

Ben Nachman

She stayed in New York? Did she marry?

Gretl Wald

Yeah.

Ben Nachman

Is she still living in New York?

Gretl Wald

No, now she lives in Long Island someplace.

Ben Nachman

And what did your father do?

Gretl Wald

I told you he had flour and grains.

Ben Nachman

No, I mean, what did he do after, from New York?

Gretl Wald

Oh, he moved to my sister, in with my sister. But he only lived there a few weeks, and then he had a stroke. And he was paralyzed for three and a half years. He was in the hospital all this time. And then he died.

Ben Nachman

And you were living in Omaha, in Lincoln, I mean.

Gretl Wald

I visited him a few times, and every time I stayed about six weeks, because he was in the hospital. He wasn't at home. So he couldn't talk. He couldn't walk. He was in bed all the years. Yeah. I don't even think he knew anymore. I think it affected his thinking, you know.

Ben Nachman

Did your husband, when he was in the service, did he go overseas?

Gretl Wald

Yes.

Ben Nachman

Where did he go?

Gretl Wald

Germany.

Ben Nachman

He did. And what was his job in the service?

Gretl Wald

To look, to find, tell him about some things, where things are and everything. He went to California, to a special school. It's a very famous school. University I can't think of its name, of the name.

Ben Nachman

And was he in Germany while the war was still on?

Gretl Wald

Yes.

Ben Nachman

Was he able to go to his home during this period?

Gretl Wald

Yes. I think he did. And he was worried that people might recognize him, you know, because after all, but he got through, and I think he was a big help. First of all, he spoke the language fluently. Without an accent, you know. And then he went to school about for six months in, I can't think of it, very, very well-known school there.

Ben Nachman

In Germany?

Gretl Wald

No, in here, in this country, to train those men who went to Germany, you know.

Ben Nachman

And when did he get out of the service?

Gretl Wald

He was there close to two years.

Ben Nachman

Then he returned to Lincoln.

Gretl Wald

Then he returned to Lincoln. I didn't even know that he was in Germany. He wasn't supposed to tell even me where he is, where he goes. You know, something might come out and say, who knows what could have happened. But I was, he told me before that he doesn't write to me now for a while and I shouldn't worry. So I asked him where you're going. He says he's not allowed to tell, you know.

Ben Nachman

When the war ended and things settled down, your husband returned from the service. Have you ever been able to travel back to your home?

Gretl Wald

We went once to Germany, yeah. I had my, I always wanted to bury my mother, to go to my mother's grave before I die. And we, now my husband lost both his parents.

Ben Nachman

In the war?

Gretl Wald

In the war. And the sad thing was, he sent them the tickets about the same time I sent my father and sister. But they were lucky, they got out and his parents didn't.

Ben Nachman

They perished in the war. Does he know any of the details?

Gretl Wald

No, but I think he knew where they, after the war was over, where they were killed.

Ben Nachman

And when you went back to see your mother's grave, was the cemetery intact?

Gretl Wald

Beautiful. It was in beautiful shape. I couldn't get over it because only German people took care of it, you know.

Ben Nachman

You were able to find your mother's grave?

Gretl Wald

Oh yes, my grandmother was buried there. And they were very nice, you know. We went to the police, we wanted to know a few things, and they couldn't have been any nicer.

Ben Nachman

Were you able to see your home?

Gretl Wald

Yeah, we went inside.

Ben Nachman

You were, did you see the people?

Gretl Wald

Yeah, it was, they had a shoe shop, they sold shoes.

Ben Nachman

Did you know the people from when you were living there?

Gretl Wald

No.

Ben Nachman

You didn't know the people?

Gretl Wald

No. My dad did, but I was, I was gone already then, you know. So, it was very, so many of the people they wanted us to stay overnight, you know. But I couldn't have, I really, it was, the whole thing was like it wasn't real, you know. Like, I can't describe it, but I didn't want to stay longer.

Ben Nachman

Were you able to see anyone there that you knew and grow up?

Gretl Wald

Yes, I saw a few people who I knew that they weren't against Jewish people, you know.

Ben Nachman

And how did they treat you when you were there?

Gretl Wald

Very nice. They each wanted me to stay there and eat there, us, you know. But I didn't want to stay.

Ben Nachman

Did any of the conversation get around to those war years?

Gretl Wald

No.

Ben Nachman

No one talked about it?

Gretl Wald

No, I didn't want to.

Ben Nachman

How long...

Gretl Wald

I don't think they would have liked it either. I'm sure they were embarrassed about the whole thing, you know. But they had to go along, they were afraid that something might happen to them.

Ben Nachman

The synagogue that you attended as a child, was that destroyed on Kristallnacht?

Gretl Wald

Yeah.

Ben Nachman

Had they rebuilt a synagogue or that synagogue after the war?

Gretl Wald

I don't know.

Ben Nachman

You didn't get to find out?

Gretl Wald

I doubt it very much.

Ben Nachman

Were there some Jewish people living in the town when you were there?

Gretl Wald

No, they all left.

Ben Nachman

No Jewish community any further?

Gretl Wald

I don't think so.

Ben Nachman

When you returned then to Omaha and your husband was out of the service, can you tell me a little bit about your life in Lincoln, Nebraska, your family?

Gretl Wald

Yeah. Wait a moment. We went first to Casper, Wyoming. This is where my husband went after he was here a few years. They wanted him. I told you to be the head of the office.

Ben Nachman

Were you married at that time?

Gretl Wald

Yes.

Ben Nachman

And you lived in Casper, Wyoming?

Gretl Wald

Yeah, uh-huh.

Ben Nachman

For how long?

Gretl Wald

For about four years and he decided he wants to go to university and gets a few hours that he needs for passing the CPA examination.

Ben Nachman

So you returned to Lincoln?

Gretl Wald

So we returned to Lincoln.

Ben Nachman

Did he continue working at that time or was he a full-time student?

Gretl Wald

No, he was a full-time student. He did a little work, but I got a job.

Ben Nachman

What kind of work did you do?

Gretl Wald

I worked at a department store here. It was Gold's at that time, Gold's + Company. And my my hus- Henry worked a few hours that he could spare, you know. But then I became pregnant after six months.

Ben Nachman

What kind of work did you do in the department store?

Gretl Wald

I sold.

Ben Nachman

You're a seamstress?

Gretl Wald

Not seamstress. I just sold what they had for sale. I worked in Gold's basement. They had curtains and clothes and everything you can think of.

Ben Nachman

You were a salesperson?

Gretl Wald

Yeah, yeah.

Ben Nachman

And when your husband finished school, did he go back to work with the same company?

Gretl Wald

He worked for the... here for the company, yeah.

Ben Nachman

Was it the same company he worked for before?

Gretl Wald

Before he went to Wyoming.

Ben Nachman

As a CPA?

Gretl Wald

Yeah, at that time, many worked for the company. They hired him already when he wasn't a CPA, you know. But he wanted to start on his own. After he was a CPA, he didn't want to work office for anybody else.

Ben Nachman

So he established his own firm?

Gretl Wald

He established his own office.

Ben Nachman

Doing public accounting?

Gretl Wald

Yeah, he had two partners. One of them went to school with him. And one of them did the work for school and the other one copied it. And once a professor wrote under it: "Please, what you don't understand, look up at Henry Wald or look up at..." his name was Kleppinger. Because, you know, they just wanted to have time like Henry, who worked, you know. So it was fun, real nice.

Ben Nachman

And can you tell me about your boys?

Gretl Wald

Yeah. One is a neurosurgeon in Vermont. And the other one is a professor at the university in Gainesville.

Ben Nachman

Is the neurosurgeon, is he married?

Gretl Wald

Yes, he has two children.

Ben Nachman

So you have two grandchildren with that son?

Gretl Wald

Yeah, and the other one had two children, too.

Ben Nachman

The one that's the professor?

Gretl Wald

Yeah.

Ben Nachman

What does he teach?

Gretl Wald

He teaches political science.

Ben Nachman

At the University of Florida?

Gretl Wald

Mm-hmm.

Ben Nachman

Do you get to see your sons and your grandchildren often?

Gretl Wald

Yeah, no, not often. Once or twice a year.

Ben Nachman

Do they get back to see you or do you go see them?

Gretl Wald

No, they were here when we had that, where they honored Henry, you know, at the university. They both came. And they had a speaker, and my younger son, the one at the university, he said a few words, too. He's a wonderful speaker. He was in Israel twice for six months and taught at the university there.

Ben Nachman

Can you tell me about your husband being honored at the university here?

Gretl Wald

Yeah, they had the... I have a paper here, the whole, you know, where they describe. Well, he went to the university here, and the two boys went to the university, and I gave to the university.

Ben Nachman

Were they honoring him for a gift that he had given to the university?

Gretl Wald

No, they did it... You want... I could show it, no. They, you know, they just honored him, you know, and he did afterwards he was connected to the university, you know. So that was about it.

Ben Nachman

Mrs. Wald, as you look back upon your life and what you had to go through, the times of growing up in Germany and in the war years and coming to this country, the difficulty of getting established, raising a family and raising two fine sons, what message do you have to give us for that life of yours?

Gretl Wald

Well, it was in part a very, very nice life. On the other hand, it took us a terribly long time to get used to this country. We didn't know the language- we knew the language, but not well enough. And I would do the same thing again that I did then.

Ben Nachman

Do you have a message that you would leave for the younger people today describing your lifetime?

Gretl Wald

Well, it was... See, I didn't have so much to feel sorry for. First of all I got out in time and I learned the language. But I saw sad things, also many people who couldn't get out, you know. All my family practically got killed. My husband's parents got killed. I was lucky. My closest family, I got over here, but lots of other relatives had to die.

Ben Nachman

Well, I'd like to thank you on behalf of the survivors of the Shoah Visual History Foundation for allowing us to come in and to speak to you. Thank you.

Gretl Wald

You're welcome.

Ben Nachman

Mrs. Wald, can you describe this for me?

Gretl Wald

They show German women, actually, German Jewish women, what the Nazis did. Because the men were gone already, some of the women were jailed and some of them got shot.

Ben Nachman

And this was given at the university?

Gretl Wald

Yeah, yeah. Besides the talking, there were pictures. He showed pictures. And it was very interesting. I was so surprised there wasn't an empty seat, and I was worried.

Ben Nachman

And this lectureship is named in honor of your husband, is that right?

Gretl Wald

Yeah, right. I've never had a picture taken. This is when she got married.

Ben Nachman

Mrs. Wald, can you tell me who this picture is?

Gretl Wald

This is a picture of my father.

Ben Nachman

And when was that taken?

Gretl Wald

It was quite a few years. He died about ten years ago here in this country, and it was, oh, I'm sure it was at least twenty years along.

Ben Nachman

Was it taken in Germany?

Gretl Wald

In Germany, yeah.

Ben Nachman

And who is this picture of Mrs. Wald?

Gretl Wald

This is a picture of my mother. She was, that was before she was married. Now she, later on, and my mother didn't like her having her picture taken. There are very few I got of her. But this one, I think, is a very nice picture.

Ben Nachman

And she died following surgery while still in Germany?

Gretl Wald

Yeah, she was only 43 years old. But she wasn't. I never knew her.

Ben Nachman

Who are these people, Mrs. Wald?

Gretl Wald

Those are Henry's parents. I never met them. They died because I had a chance to come over here.

Ben Nachman

They were murdered during the war?

Gretl Wald

They were killed in a concentration camp.

Ben Nachman

Do you know which camp they were in?

Gretl Wald

I knew, but I don't, I really don't know anymore. There were so many.

Ben Nachman

Mrs. Wald, can you tell me who's in this picture?

Gretl Wald

Yes, I start left-hand side with my granddaughter. Her name is Jaina. She's her father standing next to her. And next to her father is her mother. And that is my other son, Steve, and his wife. And next to his wife is on the right-hand side. Now it's under his wife's picture. It's Sarah, she's Steve's daughter, and myself, and the little daughter of Kenneth. Her name is Jaina. And my sister next to me and above, between my sister and myself, is my brother-in-law, Rudy is his name. I think we got everybody.